fix: patch-package install in docker build and better postgres patch (#17523)

* always patch package when running npm i, install immich CLI outside of directory so post install doesnt run

* handles case where query is an object and defined but origin is not.

* move patch-package from a dev dependency to a normal dependency. Also copy the patches folder for the docker build to use and patch with

* fix Dockerfile

* use query.reject instead of throw for queryError

* package-lock to reflect the dev dependency change

* dont throw the error, just provide an empty string for query.origin if it does not exist

* remove npm link and demote patch-package back to a dev dependency

* modify patch to add defensive check to catch queries that will fail to parse and reject

server/package.json

@@ -33,7 +33,7 @@
     "sync:open-api": "node ./dist/bin/sync-open-api.js",
     "sync:sql": "node ./dist/bin/sync-sql.js",
     "email:dev": "email dev -p 3050 --dir src/emails",
-    "postinstall": "[ \"$npm_config_global\" != \"true\" ] && patch-package || true"
+    "postinstall": "patch-package"
   },
   "dependencies": {
     "@nestjs/bullmq": "^11.0.1",